self-pity (redirected from self-pityingly)

self-pit·y (slfpt)

n.

Pity for oneself, especially exaggerated or self-indulgent pity.

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self-pity·ing adj.

self-pity·ing·ly adv.

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self-pity

n

the act or state of pitying oneself, esp in an exaggerated or self-indulgent manner

self-pitying  adj

self-pityingly  adv

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Self-Pity 

crying towel An imaginary towel offered to the kind of person who chronically complains about ill fortune, minor defeats, or other adversities. The phrase can be used teasingly or judg-mentally, implying that one who needs a “crying towel” is unnecessarily wallowing in self-pity.

cry in one’s beer To overindulge in self-pity; to be inappropriately sentimental or maudlin; to feel sorry for one-self. This expression probably derives from the fact that many people tend to become sentimental, even teary-eyed, after a few drinks. The result of such self-indulgence is often sloppy behavior and a loose tongue.

cry on [someone’s] shoulder To reveal one’s problems to another person in order to get sympathy; to assail someone’s ear with one’s woes in an attempt to win pity or to get moral support. Although the image is of a distraught person literally crying in another person’s arms, the expression is usually used hyperbolically and sometimes with a sarcastic edge undercutting the seriousness or gravity of the situation.

eat one’s heart To suffer inconsolably; to have sorrow or longing dominate one’s thoughts and feelings; to be in a constant state of mental and emotional disquietude. Spenser used this expression in The Fairie Queene (1596):

He could not rest; but did his stout heart eat.

More common today is the expression eat one’s heart out. It is often heard as a playfully sarcastic command, very different in tone from the earlier serious version of the expression.

sob story See SENTIMENTALITY.

Thesaurus

Noun

1.

self-pity - a feeling of sorrow (often self-indulgent) over your own sufferings sorrow - an emotion of great sadness associated with loss or bereavement; "he tried to express his sorrow at her loss"

Translations

self-pity [ˌselfˈpɪtɪ] N → autocompasión f

self-pity [ˌsɛlfˈpɪtɪ] n → autocommiserazione f