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One who is discouraging or saddening while seemingly offering sympathy or comfort.
[After Job, whose friends pretended to comfort but actually found fault with him.]
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a person who, while purporting to give sympathy, succeeds only in adding to distress
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a person who unwittingly or maliciously depresses or discourages while attempting to console.
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