The elder of two people is the one who was born first.
If you have a sister or brother who was born before you, you can refer to them as your elder sister or brother.
The eldest of a group of people, especially the brothers and sisters in a family, is the one who was born first.
Elder and eldest are slightly formal, and many people do not use them at all. Instead of 'elder' and 'eldest' you can use older and oldest.
You can use older and oldest in some ways in which you cannot use 'elder'. For example, you can use older after be, get, or grow, and in front of than.
You cannot use 'elder' in any of these ways.
You can also use older and oldest to talk about things.
You cannot use 'elder' or 'eldest' to talk about things.
Adj. | 1. | ![]() old - (used especially of persons) having lived for a relatively long time or attained a specific age; "his mother is very old"; "a ripe old age"; "how old are you?" |
2. | older - used of the older of two persons of the same name especially used to distinguish a father from his son; "Bill Adams, Sr." senior - older; higher in rank; longer in length of tenure or service; "senior officer" | |
3. | older - skilled through long experience; "an old offender"; "the older soldiers" experienced, experient - having experience; having knowledge or skill from observation or participation |